Winter's Child

Winter's Child
Sharon Hawley Flies North for the Winter

Monday, December 7, 2009

Generation Gap

A little more snow falls each day, but not enough to erase a day’s boot holes. My Saturday tracks from home to Sandy’s are easily traceable this morning. They follow my tracks from an unknown number of days. Only two or three other set of boot holes go this way.

Having few tracks to examine, I easily become a tracker. This one wears knobby boots—high tops, size 10 or so, longer stride than mine, feet not lifted much between steps, dragged through the top layer of loose snow, probably male and tall.

These steps I know—have tracked this one before—size 12 or larger, smooth soles with the slightest cross ridges, half-inch heel, stride considerably less than mine, boots barely lifted between steps. These tracks are fresh from this morning and they belong to Larry. He walks four blocks to Sandy’s, and today he has beat me there. I will see him at the end of the counter on his regular stool and will hear some friendly, but unpredictable greeting, like “I’ve been coming here fourteen years,” or “Used to be twenty-five below, every morning.”

But he’s quite today, doesn’t say much—good days and bad, he’s said. So I remark, “Sparks fly off the snowplow blade at dawn this morning,” and give a little laugh, like a child who has not seen such wonders before. “Christmas cheer,” I add, and get a rather bland “Yep.” Larry knows the seasons and the days and the sparks from snowplows. After finishing his sweet roll and coffee, he carries his dishes to the kitchen and makes a pot of coffee. Nobody gets service like Larry does at Sandy’s. “Love you,” Katrina says as he leaves.

There really seems to be no generation gap in this town. I saw a sixty-something sitting with a teen and learned they are not relate, just friends. And Katrina, who just graduated from college, talks to her fifteen-year-old brother as an equal, a buddy. He’s good kid, easy to talk to. I see him drive a snowmobile away from Sandy’s, hit a little hill and fly twenty feet across a ravine. Maybe I can ask him for a ride.

11 comments:

  1. Enjoyed your observations about intergenerational friendshops. That's the way it should be. Friends grow in the midwest. We lived in Indiana, Wisconsin, and Illinios and made good friends easily in each place. (Didn't make any true friends in Canton, Ohio, but we were only there for five months, and knew we weren't staying, so that didn't count.) Sure hope you are kidding about the snowmobile ride. Tonight is one of the shivering and windy California nights. Branches snapping, eucalyptus pieces filling the streets, palm fronds crashing, (hope Rick is indoors). It poured much of the day but just at sunset the clouds lifted enough for some sunlight to sweep across. It was beautiful. Goodnight, Liz

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  2. When I was growing up and delivering newspapers in the snow in high heels, I became especially good friends with some customers and never noticed they were older than me, just that they were interesting people. One woman, older than we are... played classical piano, I could hear her playing when I dropped the paper on her doorstep, she became a good friend, and we had many philosophical conversations for years, until I left NY. Another was a naturalist at the botanic gardens there, also 3 times my age, with a beautiful Viennese accent, he was a poet and I have a collection of my poems he translated into German! He and his wife left California and moved to Santa Cruz. Another, almost 4 times my age, poet, actor, by coincidencence also from Vienna Austria... well we met him when we moved to Santa Barbara... well, even here no generation gap, we exchanged poems and letters for years. All of these people are gone now, but there is still no generation gap in my mind between like~minded people. I think confronting life changes, natural challenges like snow, ice, fire, earthquake, and other threats ... all draw people together and erase years... faster than tracks disappear in the snow...

    On another topic, why ARE they selling ice...
    and what do they do with it? And it is natural International Falls fallen fresh this morning?

    Eeek... that kickball game in the playground makes me cold, just looking at it... and it is cold enough HERE right now. We finally turned on the heat this morning... we've been just using the fireplace. It was cold last night when we went to sleep and I reminded Rick of your 70 degrees inside! But imagine the marigolds shivering in the poetry garden. (By the way I had to prune your flowers again there, but I have saved them all! They're drying like herbs in the kitchen, Sharon Marigold Soup? Potpourri? Sachet? Deep fried dried marigolds? Oh I know Marigold Margaritas! So much to look forward to when you get home here!

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  3. Hi Liz, I’m happy you’re happy in the rain and the end of rain. Today was sunny but cold. It only got up to zero. The next couple of days should be about the same. Foggy glasses is a bigger problem now, might have to try goggles.

    Kathabela, I am happy you have had friendships that erase the years. I have had some too, but not many. I think that as artists and poets we strive for all sorts of interactions and unusual happenings, as part of our natures. It’s not very interesting to write clichés and not very interesting to live them either. I may only be a marigold, but “marigold soup”? How many of us become that? About as many as storks in IF.

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  4. Kath was delivering her newspapers in high heels. Did anyone notice this :) You are too cute!

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  5. She probably had a flower in her hair, too, and her skirt most likely glittered with tassels and bows. Cute is just natural for her.

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  6. The endearing friendships in a small town are soothing to my soul. Especially when the novelist is able to capture the mood and the personality so sweetly. Thanks for the beautiful image.

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  7. Thanks Michael. Friendships like these are not limited to small towns, but I think I am observing more of them here than in Pasadena. It's an interesting thing to study.

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  8. hee hee, Lois it is so nice to find you here, following my papergirl high heel tracks and Sharon's stories... it was especially a sight when I delivered the Sunday papers, heavy, with comics and all too. Those high heels made deeper prints. I have not changed much, when we moved all our things out of our place for renovations, I wore fluffy party dresses, it's a way of not feeling like you are really working, you're really having a lovely party time, and happen to have a few papers deliver (imagine the tips!) or boxes to move... now Sharon on the other hand, must wear her full alien space suit no matter what or she will turn into an ice cube, plain and simple.

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  9. But I wear beads over my thickly-padded neck.

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  10. Sharon, You raise an excellent point. When I was back in Silver City I definitely noticed a very different vibe when it comes to friendships and the "protocol". Its not better or worse, just different. But having spent time in a small town for quite a while, you certainly are observing the psychology of what its like to live in Mayberry RFD.

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  11. I wonder if cave people were friendlier because their lives were harder.

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